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The Vatican’s Secret Life

©ourtesy of Michael Joseph Gross

In Rome these days the topic of gay clerics in the upper reaches of the Holy See is hard to avoid.

Photograph © David Lees/Corbis; digital colorization by Lorna Clark.
Despite headlines about a powerful “gay lobby” within the Vatican, and a new Pope promising reform, the Catholic Church’s gay cardinals, monks, and other clergy inhabit a hidden netherworld. In Rome, the author learns how they navigate the dangerous paradox of their lives. 

Naked but for the towel around his waist, a man of a certain age sat by himself, bent slightly forward as if praying, in a corner of the sauna at a gym in central Rome. I had not met this man before, but as I entered the sauna, I thought I recognized him from photographs. He looked like a priest with whom I’d corresponded after mutual friends put us in touch, a man I had wanted to consult about gay clerics in the Vatican Curia. My friends told me that this priest was gay, politically savvy, and well connected to the gay Church hierarchy in Rome. But this couldn’t be that priest. He had told me that he’d be away and couldn’t meet. Yet as I looked at the man more closely, I saw that it was definitely him. When we were alone, I spoke his name, telling him mine. “I thought you were out of the country,” I said. “How lucky for me: you’re here!” Startled, the priest talked fast. Yes, his plans had changed, he said, but he was leaving again the next day and would return only after I was gone.

He Is Not Fit To Command Others, That Cannot Command Himself

©ourtesy of  Eternity in an Hour

Yuyuan Garden in Shanghai  ~ Obelisk But I have three precious things which I prize and hold fast. The first is gentleness; the second is economy; and the third is shrinking from taking precedence of others. With that gentleness I can be bold; with that economy I can be liberal; shrinking from taking precedence of others, I can become a vessel of the highest honour.  ~ Tao Dejing, Chapter 66 ~ On This Day 106 BC: Roman statesman Marcus Tullius Cicero is born. 1521: Pope Leo X excommunicates Martin …  – – Read more: