Here is my problem. Every time I start kissing my girlfriend and we begin to get a little intimate, I have to throw up or puke. Hummmm…!
This is an unfortunate problem and one that is being triggered by your unconscious mind. Your vomiting sounds like an unconscious defense mechanism.
If you’ve been reading my column for a while you know that defense mechanisms are designed to protect the self from dangerous or unacceptable feelings. There are hundreds of defense mechanisms, from denial to avoidance to projection to displacement, the list goes on and on. Your vomiting helps you to expel a feeling…..[read more]